Southend were seconds away from winning a game Carlisle should have put beyond them. That is what makes this 2-2 draw so frustrating: Southend had a lead to protect, but protecting it would have delivered three points the performance had scarcely earned. For me, this was a point stolen, not two dropped, and Southend’s worst display of the season.
After Promise Omochere’s cameo against Yeovil, all four Talking Shrimpers predictions backed a Southend win. My 4-2 suggests I may have overcorrected rather enthusiastically.
Carlisle kept finding Kelly
Kieron Dyer restored Ben Goodliffe, Rayan Oyebade and Anthony Hartigan to the starting side, yet within four minutes Southend were behind. Brad Nicholson released David Ajiboye down the left, and his ball across gave Georgie Kelly a close-range finish. Carlisle had got the ball into the area and found their centre-forward before Southend had given themselves anything to build on.
Kelly had two more headed chances inside the opening 15 minutes, putting one over and another onto the roof of the net. Southend were already relying on Kelly missing. The problem extended beyond those deliveries, too. Dyer later described Kelly bringing direct balls down on his chest with too much freedom. He identified the need to defend what followed the first contact and suggested putting a midfielder in front of him.
That gets to why I thought Southend’s midfield went missing. Dealing with a long ball cannot end with watching a centre-back challenge for it. The space around Kelly and the next ball needed protecting as well. Carlisle kept making Southend react to danger they had not prevented, with players switching off and runners going untracked. Dyer also felt his side had been slower to react and physically second best, and acknowledged that his team setup needed consideration.
That admission makes me question the plan as much as the players. Fitness, unfamiliar teammates and a new system may explain some of the rough edges. But can this group of National League players execute Dyer’s attacking ideas for 90 minutes without the defensive basics breaking down? The football Dyer wants to play has to fit what these players can repeat under pressure, including when an opponent goes directly into Southend’s danger area.
Oyebade and Joe Duncan did valuable work to limit the damage. Oyebade blocked an Ajiboye effort, then cleared the rebound after Duncan saved from Harvey Bunker before half-time. Dyer felt the goalkeeper’s saves had prevented Carlisle going two or three ahead. A more clinical opponent could have left Southend needing much more than an equaliser, but those interventions kept the deficit at one.
Ryan Colclough forced Adam Desbois into a save, and Oli Coker shot wide, but those openings gave Southend little authority over the game. They struggled to make Carlisle defend often enough while requiring their own defenders and goalkeeper to keep repairing the damage. At half-time, 1-0 left Dyer room to change the contest.
Dyer opens the game
Zavier Massiah-Edwards replaced Coker at the interval for his debut, but Carlisle soon exposed the same vulnerability. A lofted ball towards Kelly required Goodliffe and Oyebade to disrupt him so Duncan could come off his line and collect. Oyebade also threatened at the other end, forcing Desbois to save his header from a Hartigan free-kick.
The Carlisle preview had considered pairing Harry Cardwell with Omochere and the midfield balance needed behind them. Omochere replaced Cardwell before the hour, so that partnership was never tried.
Josh Popoola also came on for Colclough. Massiah-Edwards combined with Vontae Daley-Campbell on the right, and Popoola’s shot took a deflection wide. Sam Austin later replaced Darren Oldaker and shot over. The changes gave Carlisle more to deal with, even though Duncan still had to stop Kelly from close range to keep the deficit at one.
Dyer later explained that he had accepted a more open game because of the speed and strength available through Massiah-Edwards, Popoola, Leon Chambers-Parillon and Omochere. He normally wanted more control, but backed those players to make the risk worthwhile. That was an understandable gamble from a goal down, provided Southend could survive the openings it left Carlisle.
Omochere turned that possibility into an equaliser in the 84th minute. Leo Duru left a backpass short, Omochere intercepted it and squared for Chambers-Parillon to finish from close range. But even with the score level, Kelly forced another parry from Duncan, and Micah Obiero put the rebound over under pressure from Goodliffe and Oyebade. The goalkeeper still needed help with the rebound and Southend still needed Carlisle to miss.
Kyle McAdam then made the prospect of stealing all three points real. Hartigan’s corner was cleared out to him in the second minute of added time, and he struck from around 25 yards into the top corner. It was a superb goal, made no less impressive by the struggle that had preceded it. I also thought he was lucky still to be playing. Booked in the seventh minute, McAdam committed a later foul shortly before his goal which, in my view, warranted a second yellow. He escaped one and produced the finish which put Southend ahead.
With a lead to defend, Dyer sent Harry Taylor on for Chambers-Parillon. Carlisle’s last delivery came from a deep free-kick: Morgan Feeney headed it on and Kelly, free close to goal, finished with the last kick in the sixth minute of added time. Adding a defender had not stopped Carlisle finding the striker who had troubled Southend throughout.
Afterwards, Dyer questioned the Taylor substitution. He said the fourth official had indicated roughly one and a half to two minutes remained, and he had wanted more defensive coverage against the aerial threat. His particular frustration was that Kelly had nevertheless been left free in the six-yard box. The intention was understandable; the outcome exposed how little adding another defender had done to ensure the next contact was dealt with. Dyer was plain: “I thought we were lucky to get a point.”
The question for Dyer
I heard the commentators call Southend comeback kings. It sounds better than repeatedly conceding first and relying on another rescue.
Questioning the tactics should not strip the players of credit for their belief and fight. They recovered from behind against Yeovil and again here, and those results count. Nor does this performance make a case for heads to roll. Southend are fifth, with 14 points from seven games, only three behind leaders Boreham Wood. Even the top two have dropped points. There is plenty still worth backing while asking Dyer to make the football more dependable.
A tightly matched leading group could make avoidable errors more costly, with little separating the teams. Clean sheets would give Southend a simpler foundation for winning than repeatedly needing a late recovery. Dyer’s task is to find an attacking approach this group can sustain while keeping the basics intact. Kelly had shown Southend the danger throughout the match and was still free at the end.
Match details
Carlisle United 2-2 Southend United. National League, Brunton Park, Saturday 12 September 2026. Half-time: 1-0.
Goals: Carlisle: Kelly 4, 90+6. Southend: Chambers-Parillon 84, McAdam 90+2.
Goal timings follow Southend United’s official match report.
Southend: Duncan; Daley-Campbell, Goodliffe, Oyebade, McAdam; Oldaker (Austin), Hartigan, Coker (Massiah-Edwards), Chambers-Parillon (Taylor); Colclough (Popoola), Cardwell (Omochere).
Attendance: 7,126, including 386 Southend supporters.


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